Kavyanjali

     

  It is human to judge. Forming opinions, having prejudices, making decisions without taking into consideration the whole of the factual matrix; secretly or overtly, we all do it. Being judged is something that many of us despise the most. On the contrary, judging others is something we secretly love to do. So how is it fair when we judge others and unjust when others judge us? When we complain about others being too judgemental, aren’t we unaware of the fact that, those others and us, we all possesses within, the same human behavioral pattern? Whether we accept it or not, by default we all do judge. But when we judge, all we take into account are the obscure outer details. Maybe due to lack of time or patience, we fail to go deeper into the facts and look at the bigger picture. And what do we end up doing ? We arrive at hasty decisions and senseless conclusions.  When a person is judged by their deeds, we neglect to look at the circumstances which drove them, or their backstories whic

 

 My life is a disaster and I am the reason why. I don't deserve to be happy 'Cos I am only destined to sigh. I am no fun to be around for there is no joy bubbling inside. Full of scare and terror I am should you keep me by your side.   Everything looks narrow and fenced when I join all the dots I find. With imaginations so vivid and wild, I am a slave to my obsessive mind. My glass is rather full contrary to your 'half empty' quotes one half with water and the other with my skeptical thoughts.